Report 2 : Durian and fridges

Meeting many new faces in the past few years had been quite interesting, and also a PISS OFF in some ways.

WEll,how should i start, being a human, the drama, the tension is always there. There are many types of personalities that sprung up like shrooms after the rain. From the PASUM days to almost the 3rd year of my degree, many things had happened, some memorable, some written GO TO HELL on it.

When u talk about someone, the usual criteria would be

a)badmouth
b)good things
c)Mami Jaruming
d)backstab

a,c,d could come under 1 criteria..

But thinking of it, these things are really bad..i mean reaaal bad. Imagine unwanted stories coming out, and upo u knowing it..Ur like WTF??? I didn't say it.

eg. There was once this audition, and the band i'm in didn't make it. no big deal..But later i heard from another friend who made it through, there's a person in a band i'm in who's not satisfied with the result.. The thing is, x pasal2 aku gak kene..huhu...I'm ok je..xde hal

Well, that adds in a new proverb created by me.

" Kerana Durian sebijik, berbau 1 peti ais"

Well, that's one of it..

Let's move on.

SO what;s the deal with badmouthing? It amounts to fitna, and also defamation. Tho on the contrary, it can be used in good faith...I'm not propagating the belief to badmouth ok, it's another alternative, to not break the bonds of silaturrahim.

For example, u know somebody is an ass...that doesn't mean u will be going jaja-ing stories about the person..to be safe, make it a warning to another person to be careful with that so called ass, so that the other person will not continue the chain of badmouthing and would be much more prepared with the "ass".

This chain of umpatting is normal..tho i might say, if ur intention is to warn another about the consequences arising from the person's imperfection as a human, it's cool tho...at least we could handle the person without any heartfeelings and stuff..

But one thing that i cant accept is, when people spread untrue stories about us. That's a bitchy one. Yup, on the previous statement, make sure what u'r telling people is accurate and CORRECT!...Don't spread false rumours.

WEll, that's all for now. More reports to come.

Remember, Don't be a typical Mami Jarum...It destroys life..DOsa pon dapat..Same la umpat...tho kalo nak warning orang with the accurate facts, certified..it's ok.

"Kerana durian sebijik , berbau 1 fridge"

LOL